Abahlala kummandla zilawulwe nge Homeowners Association ('HOA') babe ngathi ayixhasi namnye banikele a enokwenzeka uluvo loluntu, kodwa nayiphi na kuluntu, kusoloko kukho okungquzulanaCite i-Rulebook: Homeowner ke Iimbumbano nika ngaphandle izikhokelo okanye umgaqo-nkqubo iincwadi ukuba, kuba zonke intents kwaye iinjongo, echazwe imigaqo kuba abahlala kuloo zoluntu. Ukuba umntu ke misconduct kunyhasha i-limisele imithetho, ngoko ke ebhekisa ngaphandle infraction kwi-ulwimi rulebook kusenokuba i-ngobuchule ifomu isikhokelo. Umzekelo, ukuba lo mba ibandakanya a supposedly uphose isondlo imali, ngoko ke, kuquka ikopi intlawulo isaziso kunye ileta.
Ngokufanayo, xa ufuna ukuthumela yakho HOA isikhalazo ileta, ungafuna cinga ukuthumela oko nge ebhalisiweyo i-imeyili, ngokunjalo ukugcina ikopi yakho iimbali. Kwi-njalo, uyakwazi kamva bonisa ukuba Homeowners Association waba ngobukho ingxaki Convince, Musa Gwenxa kweziyobisi: Interpersonal ungquzulwano unako involve olomeleleyo emotions, kwaye imbambano kunye umntu ngendlela Homeowners Association zoluntu akukho ezahluka-hlukileyo.
Personal olubulalayo okanye ukusetyenziswa kungcola usenokuxela abanye ifomu cathartic khupha, kodwa nayo counterproductive. I-unguye ka-persuasion kuthetha ifumana umntu phezu, nto leyo phantse ukwenzeka ukuba babe zithe insulted okanye ngenye indlela offended. Worse ngokuzolileyo, threatening ulwimi nawuphi na ileta ayikwazi kusenokwenzeka kukhokelela i-adverse jikeleziso ezifana filing a, ulwaphulo-mthetho isikhalazo. Ekugqibeleni, musa xana i anike isisombululo kwi-HOA iileta: umxelele Homeowners Association into ofuna kwabo ukwenza kuba kuni. Ngesiqhelo, imbambano involving a Homeowners Association unako lisetyenziswe yi-ummangali ngokwabo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba Homeowners Association ngu ezaziwayo kuba isithethi kwi okungafanelekanga okanye ngokuzithandela indlela, umntu unakho ufuna cinga malunga nenkqubo yolawulo olumanyanisiweyo imfuza yokufumana a lawyer. (Ngokufanelekileyo, ulwazi apha akufanele itolikwa njengoko ukuthelekisa isemthethweni advice). Yokuba a homeowner ngu bemelwe umtshutshisi babe kubonakale isikhalazo ke nguye kwaye kusenokwenzeka kuthintela a vindictive jikeleziso ukuba kuyafuneka kwaye ilungelelaniswe isikhalazo ileta. Kunjalo, ukuba litigation ezifunekayo ukusombulula lo mba, ngoko ke umtshutshisi unako ziqulunqe kunjalo kwaye losapho kuba eyona kunokwenzeka sikazwelonke. Njengoko kunye nayiphi na imbambano, ithuba kuba rational banomdla namazwi alawulayo kuluntu jikelele akufanele ruled ngaphandle. A ngxoxo ukuba ibandakanya esebenzayo emamele unako uncover lokuqhuba umkhosi ngasemva ingxaki, kwaye kunye, amaqela abandakanyekayo unako ukutshintsha zabo ukuziphatha. Ngelishwa, abanye abantu bamele ngokulula hayi ezisuka zande mamela Xa oko kwenzeka, ngoko ubhala isincoko HOA isikhalazo ileta babe suffice.
